Years ago, was shooting hoops with my bro, non-competitively. Just passing each other the ball, taking turns shooting.
I was enamored by the energetic interplay between us. I could envision a line of energy following the ball from my hands … Continue reading
If you’re lonely, and it seems like there’s nobody in the world who will totally embrace the real you…
Just keep being the real you anyway, you know?
If you don’t love the real you, why would anyone else?
Get … Continue reading
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If you receive a piece of mail that looks like this, or any mail at all from iDNS (Internet Domain Name Services), you can rest assured right out the gate that this is a … Continue reading
It is unwise to just ignore your problems and expect them to go away by themselves.
When your problems are with your friends, it is both unwise and malicious to ignore them.
You might think, “Out of sight, out of … Continue reading
Merry Christmas, X-mas, Dex-mas, Your mom-mas, Average Day-mas, Whatever-mas.
I admit, I’ve been a scrooge these past couple years. Depression did a number on me.
But this year, I’m feelin’ a lil’ bit magical.
If you’re having a crappy day
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Right now, someone you know is hurting unbearably, and they feel so lost and hopeless that they don’t even know how to reach out and ask for help.
There is a very good chance that right now, someone you love … Continue reading
Some people just don’t like you.
They don’t have to give you a reason.
It behooves you to learn to accept ambiguity.
Ambiguity can be difficult to deal with, because it might mean the worst case scenario is true.
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Day 4 of a 30 day writing challenge on sexuality.
I saw the title, showcased on a magazine rack at a party store. I was maybe five or six. We were there for milk or something.
Playboy… Continue reading
I have been abused enough.
I have been underestimated enough.
I have been second-guessed enough.
I have dealt with enough double standards to last a lifetime.
I have been the vicarious object of other people’s trauma enough.
I have been … Continue reading
I have an apology to make.
These days people’s apologies are often micro-analyzed, so I will choose my words and intentions carefully.
When Kevin Spacey announced that he was gay during his apology about sexual assault allegations, much of … Continue reading